20th year reunion
I am back from Puerto Rico with what can only be described as a huge relocation identity crisis. This seems to happen to me a couple of months after I move anywhere, and from talking to other "expert relocates" I'm not the only one it happens to. But this one seems to have been triggered earlier in the relocation process, likely as a result of the 20th year high school reunion and the fact that this relocation is unlike any other one I have experienced. On the one hand there are many familiar things about this relo -- I've come here for 2-3 weeks pretty much every year for the last 10 years or so, we are close to family, it's a Spanish speaking country, etc. etc. So I should be better than I have been in other relos where I don't know the people, the language, etc. But with this one I've pretty much said goodbye to my life as I know it -- I have no job, no house, no car, even 2 months after having moved. I know this may seem like a blessing in disguis...